Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

im pregnant, me and my husband have 2 dogs and a cat. my in laws said my babies (pets) were disgusting and filthy and we needed to get rid of them before the baby is born. they also complain about dog hair in our house and how its gross and when they come over and pet the dogs they track dog hair into their car. is this a justifiable reason for hating them?

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Hate is a pretty strong word . I`d say it`s a good reason to dislike your in laws though . People that hate or dislike animals are mostly cold , shallow , self-centered and stupid . I know from experience that it`s a fact ! Their telling you "you need to get rid of them" proves my point .

Because of their self-centeredness , they can`t possibly imagine someone can love a dog , cat , or any pet as much as one of their family .

Whatever you do ................. do what YOU want , and not what they tell you you should be doing , otherwise they`ll soon be running your life ............. count on it !

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Yep

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

hey there you in laws-no reason needed

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

No it is not a valid reason to hate someone but I would recommend having them over less often if not at all.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Pity them rather then hate them. They don't know what having and loving a pet is all about. Take their complaints in stride and do what you want. Tell them if they don't like your pets then stay home.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

no, you shouldn't hate people because they're ignorant of your feelings for your animals. They're probably just looking out for the good of the baby. Most doctors say that pet hair and dander aren't suitable for a newborn.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

hell yeah. don't let them into ur house as a matter of fact use the dog and cat hair as an excuse sothey would come in.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

I don't know about hating, but it is certainly a good enough reason to disinvite them to your house. You and your husband should talk this over, but if they're that uncomfortable around your pets then it may be time to set them down and explain to them that your pets are part of your family, they aren't going away anytime soon, and that if they wish to continue visiting your house they will have to accept that your pets live there too and stop complaining to you about them.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

I would tell them that this is the way I choose to live and if you don't like it you don't have to come over. My dog is allowed on the furniture and if my guests don't like it then thats too bad. It is my dogs house more than theirs.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Yes but they are your in-laws the only way you can stop them from complainning is just to clean up the dog hair a little bit and just give your pets showers once a month or so that way they can't say anything about your pets anymore. Good luck!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

I'm not sure about hating them for that reason. But it is YOUR house and they really don't have to like it. I've had many people complain about my dogs and the hair they get on them when they come over. In my opinion, if it bothers them that much then don't come over.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

As long as your pets don't use the bathroom all over your living room floor all the time, and they get baths regularly, your in laws have no right to call your critters dirty or filthy.

If pets were linked to infant death or disease, then pets would be outlawed in homes with children.

I've had a child in the same home with a dog, a cat, and a bird, and he's never caught "the cooties" from my pets.

Tell your inlaws to get a life.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

oh yeah, and once the baby comes, you'll have more reasons if they start telling you how to raise him or her.

Good luck! Congrats on the baby.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

No its not in your pets control of how much hair they shed..all dogs shed its not their fault or yours!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

I hated my in-laws for less than that!

That was insulting! Those are your pets. It's none of their business and they shouldn't put their noses where it don't belong.

Nobody, and I mean NOBODY insults me and my dogs!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

HELL YEAH! YOUR BABIES (THE PETS) ARE YOUR FAMILY. YOU CAN'T JUST GET RID OF THEM BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE WANTS TO BE PAIN IN THE ***. ALSO, THE BABY YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE IS YOUR BABY. YOU ARE THE PARENT. SINCE WHEN IS IT ANYONE ELSE'S WAY OF RAISING YOUR BABY? IF THEY DON'T LIKE THE PETS AROUND THE BABY THEY CAN NOT COME OVER! THATS YOUR HOME, DON'T LET ANYONE MAKE YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE IN YOUR HOME! YOU RULE THERE NOT THEM!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Well, I wouldn't say I'd be hating them, but I'd tell them it is YOUR house %26amp; if they don't like it they can stay at home %26amp; they'll see their grandchild when you decide to stop by their house!!!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Yes, it is.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

No, that's really not a good reason to hate them. They are being jerks and feel differently about pets than you do, but it's just a disagreement. Just tell them that it's your choice and they have no say in the matter. I mean, it's your house!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

No, but don't invite them over anymore.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Hate is a strong word. We'll call it "Severe Disliking".

And yes, it's completely a good reason, and it isn't about the dogs. They're not complaining about the dogs becuase they don't like the dogs... They just want something to complain about to you; they want to be able to point out to you everything they think you're doing wrong.

It's your baby... How many of us grew up with pets? We turned out ok.

Do what you want to do.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Not alot of people die each year from dog or cat hair. With a baby coming, make sure to bathe your pets and make sure they don't have fleas. Vaccuum the hair and love your baby when it gets here. A little dirt never hurt anyone, but don't be disgusting. The inlaws,,,,, well, avoid them and their opinions. Don't hate them 'cause sometimes its hard for older people to change. Just expect friction, if they come over, corner the pets to avoid contact with the "humans" and have a wonderful life with your child.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Hating, maybe not. But you can just talk to your husband about not letting them come over. Their language was really harsh though. If you feel that there is no problem, then just ignore their "advice". No one would like them either, but my family has a history of horrible in-laws. They can get much worse than that, trust me.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

I'd say it was a good reason not to invite them over. I would confront them and let them know that if they dont care for your pets, then they can stop visiting. (Chances are, they're not welcome at more places than just your house).

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

It's not grounds to hate them, but they have absolutely no business telling you how to run your household. I suggest that you severely limit if not totally eliminate their visits to your home. This shouldn't be hard to accomplish, since they seem to complain about being there, anyway.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

This is definately a justifiable reason for hating them.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

WELL TO TELL YOU THAT BABY'S SHOULD NOT BE AROUND PET HAIR BECAUSE IT IS BAD FOR THEM.

BUT IT IS YOUR HOUSE IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL THEN TELL THEM TO GO HOME AND DON'T COME OVER UNTIL YOU CAN FIND SOME THING NICE TO SAY ABOUT BEING OVER YOUR HOUSE .

BUT NO THAT IS NOT REASON ENOUGH TO HATE SOME PEOPLE BECAUSE HATE IS A VERY STRONG WORD TO USE . TRY DISLIKE THERE A**! THAT SOUNDS LIKE THAT WILL WORK OUT BEST.

HAVE FUN WITH THE NEW MASSAGE FOR THEM!

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

There is no justifiable reason for hating anyone although they would drive me nuts too. I grew up with just about every domesticated animal there is. Animals help children to learn kindness and compassion IF their parents instill those things in them. They can also teach children responsibility.

If your inlaws are so unhappy in your home, perhaps it would be better if they didn't visit very often (or not at all). They are out of line telling you to get rid of your pets. After all, it is YOUR home, not theirs.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Hate is a pretty strong word. Just remember..your husband has to be their son for the rest of his life, and if you are rough on his parents, you just make it harder on him. If you love him, treat them civilly. That said:

1) Don't invite them over...at all. Go visit them.

2) Keep your pets. You are both adults and do not live on their dime. (I assume)

3) Enjoy the miracle of life you are creating, and don't let someone else's negativity interrupt your happiness.

Congrats on the baby.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

Your inlaws may be a bit rude, but I think there is rarely a good reason to hate someone, and especially someone whose lives are going to linked to yours for as long as either your or they live. If someone has offended you, the best thing to do is simply talk to them and explain this. You don't need them to agree with you all the time, but you owe it to yourself and your children to explain your feelings. They will respect you far more for it, and you will set a better example for your children. If your husband is also offended, then you should both go to them and explain your mutual feelings. Don't try to turn what is simple rudeness into a long-term feud that will damage the lives of all of you, including your children.

Is this a good enough reason to hate my in laws?

well it your house and your life live it